Nick Dow's blog : HOW TO MAKE A GIRL FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU
You met her, forgot about sleep and peace, and now you think only about how to win her heart... Okay, stop. Let's leave these high-flown speeches. You really liked the girl, and you want to make every effort to like her too? Let's go!
Give her attention
It's simple: if you don't declare your existence and interest, she won't even know that she has yet to fall in love with you. Just don't shower her with gifts at the very beginning, especially if it's too expensive. It's enough to simply compliment her from time to time, demonstrate a good attitude, offer help, and not necessarily in something significant - for example, you can help with a difficult task at school or work, so that she understands that you are there and ready to sort out her problems if necessary. In short, offer your strong male shoulder where possible, but not in such a way that the girl feels obligated. This is pleasant for any person, and she will definitely appreciate it.
Make sure you are physically attractive to her.
This is probably the most important piece of advice when it comes to the very beginning of a relationship or its prospects in general. You can compliment her every day, make a lot of nice gestures, but all this will make little sense if you don’t look like a dream guy. To make it clear what we mean, here’s an example from the other side. There is a girl who clearly likes you. She is not stupid, it is interesting to talk to her, she seems pretty. But at the same time, she is extremely unkempt: she wears wrinkled clothes, her hair is greasy and she does not smell like lilies of the valley.
Could you fall in love with such a girl? Unlikely, if she is not ready to change anything. Girls think the same way: they love with all their heart, of course, but appearance is important for everyone, men and women. In terms of height, build, facial features and hair color, everyone has different tastes. Some people like tall jocks, some like skinny guys with an aristocratic appearance, and so on – you can’t guess at all. But neatness is what is important for everyone. You should look if not attractive, then at least not repulsive - this is the basis.
Clean your clothes on time, watch the condition of your shoes and, of course, don't forget about hygiene. Take a shower regularly, use deodorant - some, by the way, not only block the smell of sweat, but also smell like expensive perfume, which adds a few more points to your attractiveness. Here are some recommendations.
Be interesting
This is also important. How can a guy make a girl fall in love with him if he doesn’t even know what to talk about with her? No way. It’s important to have interests, hobbies, and be able to talk about them. Even if they are completely opposite to what she is into. On the contrary, it’s even better! The girl will be able to tell you about her interests, and you will tell her about yours, and you won’t be bored. And also invite her to some top unusual place, not to a cafe, but somewhere more interesting: to a climbing wall, to a modern museum, to a master class, and so on. She should never be bored in your company.
Psychological techniques
We will share some tricks that will help you attract her attention and gain her interest.
- Don't be too available. She shouldn't get the impression that you've put on make-up and are chasing her, and she can accept your advances favorably or refuse. Even if this is really the case. Be independent, show that if she wants to date you, she'll have to try, too.
- Convince her that you are popular with girls. Again, even if this is not entirely true, try to create some appearance. Ask your bros for help, if they know her. They may chuckle at this request, but they are unlikely to refuse to slightly exaggerate your popularity in conversations with her. This is psychology - we want to have what others want. This will make it easier for her to fall in love.
- Be different from others. If you stand out from her surroundings, she will notice you sooner and, of course, fall in love sooner. Another psychological thing: a girl who is used to communicating with a certain circle will pay attention to someone who stands out from this circle at least a little. Try to play on the contrast a little.
- Give her positive emotions. You already know about compliments and help. What else to do? Make her laugh! No, seriously. Girls like guys who make them laugh. So, if you have a good sense of humor, joke around her more often. At worst, send her fresh memes - this also greatly improves her mood.
How to make someone fall in love with you from a distance
Want to make a girl fall in love with you via correspondence? Found your potential destiny on a dating site, social networks or some forum? It's risky, but you can try - sometimes strong relationships start this way. By the way, many star couples met and fell in love via correspondence - for example, Taylor Goldsmith and Mandy Moore, Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner.
So what should you do to make a girl you like fall in love with you without being able to talk to her in person? All the psychological tricks are the same. But there are a few more important things to add to them. Watch your spelling and punctuation, and also make sure that your phrases are read meaningfully and unambiguously. Use emoticons if you have any doubts, especially when it comes to humor.
Otherwise, sooner or later, this will happen: you make a joke, she doesn’t get it, gets mortally offended, and that’s it – it’s all over. You’ll have to restore the trust you lost – basically start all over again.
If you have been communicating recently and have never seen each other, do not rush to ask her out. You liked her, you want to talk in person as soon as possible - that's understandable. But give her time like with watch the Homemade Amateur Videos. She needs to understand if she really wants to continue communicating offline. It's better to wait until she hints at it herself. But if a lot of time has passed and the communication still takes place online, try to ask the question carefully - do not demand or push.
Accept the fact that nothing may work out.
Have you heard the saying "you can't force someone to like you"? That's true. If you're not her type at all, if she already has a boyfriend or just some hottie she's chasing, leave her alone. There are plenty of other girls around, no less beautiful and smart, and most importantly, single. Perhaps one of them even likes you, and she's making just as much effort to get your attention. Look around. In short, if nothing works out and the girl ignores all signs of attention, don't get upset, just forget about it. It will be easier for both of you.
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