john kali's blog : Men's Guide to Buying Sex Toys
By that time now, thousands of confused men were wondering what each other would want on Valentine's Day. They finally realize that the usual androgynous staples (that make a lady think you're doing it wrong) and chocolate just won't cut it anymore. Gone are the days of being rewarded with oral sex just for thinking about it, women today are much more discerning and if a recent survey is to be believed, one in four men will be buying sex toys for their lady this Valentine's Day. Heaven.
Now here's the problem. When it comes to naughty things, men have only one problem. They tend to be self-righteous. Look at it this way, a man who buys lingerie thinks of one thing that will turn me on? Few people think, "Will she like it? Will she choose to wear it even if I'm not around? Is it comfortable for her?" Now, Basques and thongs in socks are very sexy and almost guaranteed to get any man hard, but few women will choose to wear them when they crowd the supermarket for her weekly shopping.
Buying sex toys for your lady follows the exact same principle. What you want to see your woman play with, or wish to play with together, is not usually what she chooses to play with when she is alone. With hundreds of different options, different shapes, sizes, colors, and materials, the task of choosing one for your lady is much more daunting than you might initially think.
Her first toy?
Think about it, is this her first toy? In this case, it may even be your lady's first toy and you need to be extra careful, something like a 35cm "fist" could scare her half to death. Any anal play toy is the same as something that looks like a penis in reality. Women may find them intimidating or perverted.
In fact, you might be wise to look for something that can be used as a massager, such as the Hitachi Magic Wand, an excellent starter toy for external use only that is perfect for stimulating nipples, clitoris and any other erogenous zones.
Of course, your lady may have decided to get a toy and be more open (or more likely secretly already own at least one toy), in which case you're probably doing a lot worse than looking for rabbit vibes. These toys are bright, fun, and more likely to be in a lady's bedside drawer than any other toy in the world since they gained fame in "sex in the city," so it's the logical choice. Another good choice is the fun factory products. Again, they come in bright colors, aren't too big, and are waterproof so she can play with them in the shower or tub.
Is she a sex toy expert?
Is she the kind of person whose cramps make you feel visibly inadequate? The first thing I'll say is, don't worry. Some women often joke that if a vibe can buy them a drink, then they don't need a man in their life. This is obviously not true, and just because a woman loves her toys doesn't mean she doesn't need or love you, or that she can easily replace you with vibrating plastic, not that you can replace her. Take a blow up love doll or a Fleshlight.
Find something different, along the lines of the Tongue Joy or Tongue Teaser you play together, both of which feel different from the normal vibe. Or push her boundaries a little, many women love anal play, but make sure you know this is true before you continue.
Of course, at the end of the day, you know your lady better than I do, and since every lady is different, I certainly can't tell you exactly what every lady wants. I will put it this way.
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Take the time to think about it and spend some time choosing what you like, not what you want to have fun with her. 11